Wednesday, February 4, 2026

Decluttering thoughts

 I'm working harder on decluttering recently.  With the Offspring in Europe for a semester, I'd like to have some very visible progress made by the time they get home.  

As of right now, I've got about 30 things listed on Marketplace, and half a dozen or so on the local Buy Nothing group.  Plus a few things on NextDoor, but most of those are also on MP.  I'm listing a few Hallmark ornaments right now, because I've been pondering those in the post-Christmas season.  Most of mine honestly have never been on a Christmas tree.  Some of them were gifts from Mom.  

 The ones from Mom tend to be personalized non-Hallmark ornaments, or Hallmark's "Family" series that say "Daughter" or "Mother" for example.  The ones with my name on them, I'll keep one or two that I like the best.  The rest are getting donated.  At least I've got a common name.  As I told someone, I'm not at the age yet where I forget my name, so I don't need my name painted or engraved on every-damn-thing.  (Note 1). The "Daughter" ornaments are getting the same treatment.   Keep the one or two I like the best, donate or sell the rest.  So far, I've found a "Daughter" that is a squirrel flying a plane.  That one is in the Keep pile for now, given my history with squirrels.  I've also got a Daughter bear, stocking, gingerbread cookie, snowman-on-a-cupcake, and gawd only knows how many more.  (Note 2) 

 Note 1 - we've also been given some personalized family ornaments and picture frames.  Those have all three of our names on them, and often the family name as well.  If I can paint over the names, those will be donated.  The photo frames, on the other hand, are wood, with the names engraved multiple times.  Unless we have a doppelganger family somewhere, we're stuck with those.  

 Note 2 - The Offspring is getting their choice of the Daughter ornaments and personalized ornaments.  Then we'll discuss the "Grandson" ornaments. 

 Another part of this process is that I've put two boxes near the door - one for things I'm selling, one for things I'm giving away.  Because I've spent too much time looking for stuff that I've posted online and then put "somewhere safe" which then disappeared.  Still trying to find a camera lens that someone wants.  I can't find it, and I'm 99% sure I didn't donate it.  And, to go along with the sign on the wall that says "I need the SPACE more than I need the money" - about every other week, everything in the "free" box is getting donated.  

Exhibit A - One answer to "where does this stuff come from?!?!?"  I bought these three Hagen-Renaker cats at the local auction.  (The Scottish Fold on the right was a surprise, rattling around in the bottom of the box.)  But, the cats came as a box-lot of stuff, including half a dozen trinket boxes, two wine stoppers, and assorted other bits and pieces.  Most of that has already gone to the Habitat ReStore, although there's a nice little glass sculpture that I'm going to list for sale.  But I need to get better at sorting out the keepers and non-keepers, and reducing the amount of time that everything sits around taking up space.  

 So far this year, I've made $16 on stuff, and gotten rid of about 30 things.  Yay me! 


 

Friday, January 23, 2026

January First Reads

 January's choices 

 

  • Famous Once (women's fiction)
  • Read Between the LIes (suspense)
  • Land of Dreams (hist fic)
  • In His Wake (thriller)
  • The Epicenter of Forever (womens fic)
  • The People's Library (fantasy)
  • Hooked (Mystery)
  • Soft Launch (coming of age)
  • Blade (psych thriller)
  • The Secrets Below (middle grade fic)

We get two books this month. Going with Land of Dreams and The Secrets Below.  May suggest People's Library for the library to purchase.  

Monday, December 29, 2025

December 2025 First Reads

 Oh, look, I'm not waiting until the absolute last minute!!

 

  • Her Beautiful Life (Domestic suspense)
  • Behind These Four Walls (suspense)
  • Tea & Alchemy (fantasy)
  • The Heart of Everything (book club fiction) by Marc Levy
  • The Water Lies (thriller)
  • Thirty, Flirty, & Forever Alone (romance)
  •  The Flightless Birds of New Hope (book club fiction)

 The library has about half of these on order, and I may suggest The Heart of Everything for purchase at some point.  And I'm choosing the Flightless Birds, even though I'm still not sure what "book club fiction" really is.  

 

Tuesday, November 25, 2025

November First Reads

 This month's choices: 

 

  • Second Son (espionage) 
  • Yours for the Season (holiday romance) 
  • The Lost Heiress (book club fiction) 
  • Snake-eater (fantasy) 
  • The Pursued (true crime) 
  • Artificial Truth (psycological drama)
  • Only way Out (thriller) 
  • Ten Thousand Light Years from Okay (book club fiction)
  • The Night Watcher (police procedural)
  • The Wondrous Lives and Loves of Nella Carter (women's fiction)

 

Easy choice - Snake-Eater, because the author is T. Kingfisher and I've liked the other books I've read by them.  Also, espionage/psychodrama/thriller aren't my thing, and when did "book club fiction" become a genre?  

Friday, October 31, 2025

October First Reads

 October's options: It's a 2-book month!

 

  1. What She Saw (police procedural)
  2. The Night Guests by Marina Scott (hist fict)
  3. 3 days, 9 months, 27 years by Scalzi (short story)
  4.  Chasing Stardust (women's fiction)
  5. The Fix (romantic thriller)
  6. The Kidnapping of Alice Ingold by Cate Holahan (crime)
  7. Best Day Ever (picture book)
  8. More than Nothing (contemp romance)
  9. Restoration Garden (book club fiction)
  10. The Moor Witch by Jessica Khoury. (romantasy)

 I've got one on hold at the library, and am getting Chasing Stardust and the Scalzi short story.

Tuesday, September 30, 2025

September First Reads

 Nothing like pushing a deadline to the limit, right?  

 

  • Bonus short read: Eerie Basin (horror)
  • I'll Follow You (psychological suspense)
  • Call of the Camino (book club fiction)
  • Dating After the End of the world (romance)
  • As Long As You're Mine (hist fic)
  • The Last Morning (psych susp)
  • A House Between Sea & Sky (magical realism)
  • Wanting Daisy Dead (psych susp)
  • The Distant Daughter (hist fic)

Boy, lots of psychological thrillers this month.  And not just a romance, but a zombie romance!  And three books that have dual-timeline stories.

 I ended up with Call of the Camino; it sounds interesting.  Library actually has most of these on order, except for I'll Follow You. 

 

Monday, July 28, 2025

Vintage market

 Took the Offspring and their bestie to the first "Vintage & Vinyl Fest" on Sunday.  Given that the Offspring can spend an hour in Vintage Stock, I thought we'd be at the Fest a while.  I was wrong.  As it turns out, there were 17 vendors, only one of which was actually selling vinyl.  Most of the rest were vintage clothing, but some were selling non-vintage stuff like handmade candles and jewelry.  The Offspring came home with one $18 plaid article of clothing.  The two kids went through the Fest in less than half an hour, before I could even get thirsty enough to go searching for bottled water. 

 In a word: underwhelming.